Tell your own story
Share what happened to you, in your own words. Stick to what you saw and lived through. Rumours, second-hand gossip and screenshots of other people's private chats get removed.
ReadHouse rules
Community guidelines
Keep the tea hot, not toxic. Six rules keep the circle safe for everyone in it.
No private details
Never post phone numbers, home addresses, workplaces, ID numbers or anything else that could help someone track a person down. A first name, age and area are enough to warn other women.
ReadCall out behaviour, not looks
Talk about what he did, not how he looks. Body shaming, slurs, harassment and hate get removed, whoever they're aimed at, and repeat offenders lose their account.
ReadKeep it clean
No nudity or sexual content, and never share intimate images of anyone, even to prove a point. Posts that do are removed and the account can be banned.
ReadChild safety
Tea'd is for women aged 18 and over. Anything that sexualises or endangers a child is removed at once, the account is suspended or banned, and we report it to the authorities, as the law requires.
ReadNo ads or spam
Don't sell, promote or recruit here, and don't post on someone else's behalf. Fake accounts, spam and paid posts get removed.
ReadHeading out on a date? Read our dating safety tips.