Guideline 3

Call out behaviour, not looks

Talk about what he did, not how he looks. Body shaming, slurs, harassment and hate get removed, whoever they're aimed at, and repeat offenders lose their account.

What other women need to know is how he behaved: whether he was honest, respectful and safe to be around. That’s what to write about.

Describe what he did and said, not his face, body or clothes.
No body shaming, slurs, harassment or hate.
This applies whoever it’s aimed at: the man in your story, another member or anyone else.

Body shaming, slurs, harassment and hate get removed, and repeat offenders lose their account.